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Questions to Replace “How Was Your Day?” for Real Answers

Questions to Replace "How Was Your Day?" for Real Answers

I’ll never forget the day I realized I was having the same boring conversation with my six-year-old every single afternoon. I’d pick him up from school, eagerly asking, “How was your day?” and he’d mumble “fine” while staring out the window. That was it. No stories, no details, nothing. I’d try to dig deeper with […]

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10 Ways to Build Relationships With Kids That Actually Work

10 Ways to Build Relationships With Kids That Actually Work

I’ll never forget the afternoon I realized I was completely failing at connecting with my daughter. She was sitting at the kitchen table, excitedly telling me about something that happened at school—something about a friend, a game at recess, I honestly can’t remember. I was nodding along, loading the dishwasher, mentally planning dinner, and scrolling

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How to Engage With Kids When You’re Exhausted and Out of Ideas

How to Engage With Kids When You're Exhausted and Out of Ideas

Last Thursday evening, I found myself scrolling through my phone while my six-year-old daughter tried to show me her LEGO creation for the third time. “Mom, look!” she kept saying, but I was half-listening, nodding absently while mentally planning tomorrow’s lunches and wondering if I’d responded to that work email. When she finally walked away

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How to Nurture Your Child’s Creativity (Without Trying Too Hard)

How to Nurture Your Child's Creativity (Without Trying Too Hard)

I’ll never forget the look on my daughter’s face when I “fixed” her drawing. She’d spent 20 minutes coloring a picture of our family, and when she proudly showed me, I noticed she’d made everyone’s skin bright purple. Without thinking, I said, “This is great, honey! But people don’t have purple skin. Want me to

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Parenting Adult Children: What I Wish I’d Known Sooner

Parenting Adult Children: What I Wish I'd Known Sooner

Last Tuesday, I caught myself texting my 23-year-old son to remind him about his dentist appointment. Then I realized—he didn’t even live with me anymore. He has a full-time job, pays his own rent, and somehow, I was still operating like he was twelve and needed me to manage his calendar. That’s when it hit

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10 Ways to Teach a Child Good Self-Esteem That Actually Work

10 Ways to Teach a Child Good Self-Esteem That Actually Work

My daughter stood in front of the mirror last week, sighed dramatically, and said, “I’m not good at anything.” She’s seven. My heart sank. Where was this coming from? She’s smart, creative, funny, and kind. But somewhere along the way, she’d started doubting herself. And I realized: I needed to actively teach her how to

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